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The Queries are a device used within the Society of Friends for prompting
both corporate and individual self-examination. They have varied through
time from Yearly Meeting to Yearly Meeting, reflecting current regional
insights as to the best way for Meetings and individual Friends to live
their spiritual and temporal lives. It is the practice in most Monthly
Meetings to read and consider a Query at each meeting for business. We
urge consideration of these Queries by all Friends.
Are meetings for worship held in expectant waiting for Divine guidance?
Are Friends encouraged to share spiritual insights? Are specific gifts of
ministry recognized and encouraged?
Do you come to meeting with heart and mind prepared? Are you careful not
to disturb the spirit of the meeting by late arrival or in other ways?
Are meetings for business held in a spirit of worship, understanding, and
forbearance? When direction seems lacking, is this seen as a challenge to
a more prayerful search for truth? Do we humbly set aside our own
preconceived notions as to proper action, seeking instead Divine guidance
as to the right course? Is the Meeting aware that it speaks not only
through its actions but also through its failure to act?
Do you participate regularly in meetings for business, discharge
faithfully your committee responsibilities, and assume your share of
financial support of the Meeting?
Are love and harmony within the Meeting community fostered by a spirit of
open sharing? Do you endeavor to widen your circle of friendships within
the Meeting, seeking to know persons of all ages and at all stages of the
spiritual journey? Does the Meeting provide for the spiritual refreshment
of all members and attenders? Do Friends provide spiritual and practical
care for the elderly, the lonely, and others with special needs?
Do you make time for meditation, prayer, and worship? Do you read the
Bible, the writings of Friends, and other inspirational works, seeking new
light? Do you regularly seek God's guidance? Are you open to guidance and
support, and do you give thanks for them? Do you share your spiritual
insights with others and willingly receive from them in return?
Do you live in accordance with your spiritual convictions? Do you seek
employment consistent with your beliefs and in service to society? Do you
practice simplicity in speech, dress, and manner of living, avoiding
wasteful consumption? Are you watchful that your possessions do not rule
you? Do you strive to be truthful at all times, avoiding judicial oaths?
Do you strive to develop your physical, emotional, and mental capacities
toward reaching your Divinely given potential? Do you cultivate healthful
and moderate habits, avoiding the hazards of drugs, intoxicants, and
over-indulgence generally? Do you try to direct such emotions as anger and
fear in creative ways?
Do you make your home a place of affection where God's presence is felt?
Do you practice family prayer? Do you share your deepest beliefs and
interests with all in the family? Do you grow together through sharing
prosperity and adversity? Can you keep a sense of humor and avoid taking
yourself too seriously? Do you establish family standards including the
mutual obligations of children and adults?
Are you as children learning to be accountable for your actions? Do you as
parents help your children to grow in independence and responsibility? Do
you consider the needs of grandparents and older members of the family
circle?
Do you respect that of God in every person? Do you search yourself for and
strive to eliminate prejudices such as those related to race, religion,
gender, age, sexual orientation, and economic condition? In what ways do
you accept and appreciate differences among your friends and associates?
Do you avoid exploiting or manipulating others to accomplish ends, however
worthy?
Do you, as way opens, share Friends' principles with non- Friends? Do you
witness to your Quaker faith by letting your life speak? Do you make
non-Friends welcome in your meetings for worship? Do you find ways to
encourage their continued attendance?
Do you promote social justice and make your life a testimony to fair
dealing? Do you seek to understand and appreciate differing cultures and
social values? Do you support fair treatment of all regardless of race,
gender, age, and other differences? Are you concerned for those in our
society who are disadvantaged? Do you take your full share of civic
responsibility by voting and giving service? Do you oppose the use of
land, labor, technology, and capital for human exploitation or in ways
destructive to other living things?
Do you endeavor to live "in virtue of that life and power which takes away
the occasion of all wars"? Do you work to make your peace testimony a
reality in your life and in your world? Do you weigh your day-to-day
activities for their effect on peace- keeping, conflict resolution, and
the elimination of violence? Are you working toward eliminating
aggression at all levels, from the personal to the international?
Do you provide religious education, including study of the Bible and of
Friends' history and practices, in your Meeting? Do you ensure that
schools under the care of Friends exemplify Friends' principles? Do you
support and strive to improve the public schools?
Are you concerned for responsible use of natural resources and their
nurture for future generations? Do you try to avoid wasteful consumption
and pollution? Do you seek to preserve the beauty and balance of God's
world?
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